Here we go again...
I have began to realize that no matter what, as long as "M.c." is in my life it will always have drama!
She has started saying more junk about my brother. Blaming HIM on the baby "been sick" even though he was that way the 1st time she brought him over! She is just so ridiculous! Now she is trying to go back on the visitation, and only let him be here for 6 hours A WEEK, saying that "it's not working out" even though there is nothing wrong besides the fact that she doesn't want my brother to be there for him!
And since she works with me, and has to discuss everything that goes on(or what she thinks goes on) in her life (which includes me & my family) at work, I am planning on talking to a manager about it today. I had to talk to someone before the baby was born because of all the crap that she was saying(untrue crap). I'm going to talk to Nate and just tell him "You know that I've talked to you about the situation before (he's the only one I feel comfortable talk to about it) and just tell him, ya know that she is accusing my brother of all this stuff and they are speaking to attorney's trying to get visitation arranged and she is bringing the situation to work (THE PLACE I WORK) and telling everyone about it! I haven't brought up the situation to ANYONE but she is talking about everything and so people are coming up to me telling me all this stuff, and it isn't allowing me to work to my best ability. I have not let the fact that we work together get in the way of my job, but it's causing me so much stress the days that she IS there when I work, that I honestly feel like I have find another job. I don't want to leave that restaurant, I love working with (pretty much) everyone there! I have to deal with so much of the situation at home, and don't think it's right that I have to go to work and hear about it and have to deal with it there TOO!
So I'm just going to tell him that and see what he has to say about it. It's kinda weird because he's not my direct manager anymore, but I can't talk to my manager about it. I mean since I've already talked to Nate about it before it just makes more since! So I just pray that the Lord will give me the words to say to him, and the strength to work through this. I know that I can do anything through Him!
Ok on a lighter note: My classes are ALMOST over!!!! I am so excited! I don't think that I've wanted classes to be over so much in my life! Everything was just so crazy because of ALL 3 of the hurricanes! I signed up for my classes next term! I've decided to just stay with nursing, I just thinking that I was second guessing myself because of all the stuff going on, and the fact that I don't know what to expect about the program, and I think that was making me nervous!
I got pretty much ALL of my Christmas present shopping done! I'm so glad because it was starting to stress me out!
Ok, well I have some stuff to do before I get ready for work tonight.
--CYA

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